Mangikusho ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi lokhu akutshelwa ngumqeqeshi emshweni owodwa yinto ongeke uyiqonde ngemuva kokuzilolonga inyanga yonke noma ngaphezulu.

Kufanele sifunde ukwamukela isipiliyoni abanye abasifingqa ukuze sithuthuke ngokushesha.

Nawa amathiphu angu-5 okudlala igalofu.Zigcine engqondweni futhi uzozisebenzisa impilo yakho yonke.

1. Ukuma kwesisekelo
Izimo ezihlukene zizoveza ngokwemvelo ukushintshashintsha okuhlukile.Uma isimo somuntu sihluka kancane isikhathi ngasinye lapho eshwiba, ukushwiba kwakhe ngeke kufane.
Ukuze uzuze ukushintshwa okuphindaphindekayo, yenza ukushwibeka ngakunye kusondele ngangokunokwenzeka futhi wenze isibhamu esizinzile, kufanele wenze

qiniseka ukwenza isimo esifanayo.

Ukuhlola ukuma kwakho kufanele kube yinto okufanele uyenze ngaphambi kokushwiba, hhayi ukuqala ukushwiba ngokuxhamazela.

2. Ukuphenduka kuyimfuneko
Ngesikhathi sokujikijela, konke ukunyakaza kufanele kwenziwe ngaphansi kwesisekelo sokuphenduka, ngoba kuwumgogodla wokushwibeka.
Busa ukujikijela ngokuphendula umzimba, hhayi nje kuphela okungaqhuma amandla anamandla okushwiba, kodwa futhi kungenza ukushwibeka kuzinze.

3. Isiqondiso sibaluleke kakhulu kunebanga
Uma isiqondiso singazinzile, ibanga liyinhlekelele enkulu.Akuyona into embi ukungabi nebanga lokushaya, into embi kakhulu ukuthi akukho ndlela.
Ngokwenza, isiqondiso kufanele kube yinto ehamba phambili yokuqala, futhi ibanga lisekelwe esisekelweni sesiqondiso esizinzile.
 
4. Phishekela ukwenza okuthile, hhayi ubuhle
Kubadlali begalofu abayimfundamakhwela, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukushwiba okuhle kumele kube okusebenzayo.Eqinisweni, akulona ngempela iqiniso.Ubuhle abusebenzi ngempela, futhi ukwenza akuwona neze kubuhle.

Kufanele sithathe ukushwiba okusebenzayo njengomgomo wokuqala, kunokuphishekela ngamabomu ukushwiba okuhle.Yebo, kungcono kakhulu uma ungakwenza kokubili.

5. Amakhono ebhola kuxoxwa ngawo
Akekho ongathuthukisa ikhono elihle kakhulu lokujikijela ngokufihla amakhanda abo ekusebenzeni, futhi amakhono athuthukiswa kancane kancane ekuxoxweni okuqhubekayo.
Ungenqabi ukuxhumana nabadlali begalofu nabaqeqeshi.Imibono eminingi yokushwiba ingaqondwa kuphela njengoba uphikisa.