Uma igalofu liyinkundla yokuhlola yempilo, khona-ke wonke umuntu angathola indawo yakhe kugalofu.

Intsha ingafunda isimilo ngegalofu, abasha nabathembisayo bangathuthukisa isimo sabo sengqondo ngegalofu, abaneminyaka ephakathi bangazithuthukisa ngegalofu, futhi abantu abadala bangajabulela ukuphila ngegalofu...

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki, ungakwazi ukujabulela ukuzibekela inselele futhi ujabule enkundleni yegalofu.Ngenxa yalokhu, igalofu akuyona nje umdlalo womuntu siqu, kodwa futhi umdlalo ongahambisana nabanye.Kuya ngeminyaka nobulili.Futhi ukuqina komzimba akunqunyelwe, okuletha amathuba angenamkhawulo emphakathini womuntu siqu kanye nempilo.

Uma uwedwa, igalofu wumdlalo wokubhekana nawe.Ngokuzibekela inselelo njalo, uthulisa umzimba wakho nengqondo, kodwa uma uhamba nabanye, igalofu lizoshintsha libe esinye isici, esihlanganisa inkundla yegalofu.Wonke umuntu enkantolo uvumela abantu ukuthi babone isimo somuntu kanye nengqikithi yakhe ngemidlalo.

Uthando lunawe futhi luvuna injabulo

Igalofu wumdlalo ongaphansi kwelanga.Inokushwibeka okunamandla, ukuhambahamba kancane, nokunyakaza nokuthula.Kuwuhlobo lokuzivocavoca komuntu oyedwa, kodwa kuwuhlobo lothando lwabantu ababili.Ukudlala igalofu nophathina wakho kuyindlela enempilo nenempilo yothando.“Bamba isandla sakho uguge nendodana yakho”.Kuyinto yothando futhi emnene ukuhamba nibambene endaweni eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi nihambe phakathi neminyaka.

Umkhaya ojabulayo uhlale ufana.Ngenxa yomdlalo wokuzilibazisa ovamile, ungathola ukuxhumana okunempilo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ubhekane nobunzima nezinselele ezifanayo enkundleni, uxoxe ngezinzuzo nokulahlekelwa kwangaphakathi, futhi ngokungazi unciphise ibanga phakathi komunye nomunye.

Zuza ifa lomoyakusukaabazalikuizingane

Igalofu wumdlalo wabanumzane onesizotha, ubuqotho, ukuziphatha, kanye nokuzithiba.Sekuwumdlalo wokuzikhulisa emehlweni abantu abaningi.Kuthulisa ubuntu bomuntu, kuthuthukise ukuqina komuntu, futhi kukhuthaze ukukhula kwentsha.Kuyinkundla enhle kakhulu yokuzijwayeza yokuziphatha.Izingane ezizilolonge enkundleni yegalofu zihlala zinesimilo somdlalo kakhulu noma ngaphansi futhi zihehekile yibona.Kuwusizo lokukhula noma ukukhula kwabo kwekusasa..

Imindeni enezingane ezidlala igalofu izolahlekelwa ingxenye yokulwa kwabazali nengane kanye nomuzwa wokuqonda okungokomoya.Isikhathi esichithwe enkundleni yegalofu nezingane sizoba yinkumbulo enhle nemnene yomzali nengane njengoba zikhula.

Yazi abantu emdlalweni, hlangana nomuntu onomqondo ofanayo

Uma ufuna ukwazi umuntu, ungamthatha uyodlala igalofu.Ungambona umlingiswa wakhe ngomzuliswano wegalofu.Ungakwazi ukubona isimo somuntu sangaphakathi futhi ulithande igalofu.Nakuba kunabantu abaningi, ngoba izici zalo mdlalo zinokuthile okufanayo.Kusukela kwabancane kuye kwabadala, impilo ngeke iswele abalingani bebhola ngenxa yeminyaka.

Abanye abantu bathi ukuhlala nomuntu onethezekile kungagcina impilo, ukuba nomuntu othakazelayo kungakhulisa abanye, nokuba nomuntu othembekile kungakhulisa inhliziyo yakho, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomuntu, ungahlala unaye. / Udlale igalofu ndawonye.