Ukuba igalufa ngumhlaba wovavanyo lobomi, ke wonke umntu unokufumana indawo yakhe kwigalufa.

Abaselula banokufunda isimilo esihle ngegalufa, abancinci kwaye bathembisayo banokuwuphucula umoya wabo ngegalufa, abakwiminyaka ephakathi bangaziphucula ngegalufa, kwaye abantu abadala banokonwabela ubomi ngegalufa…

Nokuba uneminyaka emingaphi na, ungonwabela ukuzivavanya kunye nolonwabo kwibala legalufa.Ngenxa yoku, igalufa ayingomdlalo wobuqu kuphela, kodwa ikwangumdlalo onokukhatshwa ngabanye.Kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka kunye nesini.Kwaye ukuqina komzimba akukhawulelwanga, okuzisa amathuba angenamkhawulo kwintlalo yoluntu kunye nobomi.

Xa uwedwa, igalufa ngumdlalo wokuzijonga.Ngokuhlala ucela umngeni kuwe, uyawuthoba umzimba wakho nengqondo, kodwa xa uhamba nabanye, igalufa iya kutshintsha ibe kolunye uphawu, olubandakanya ibala legalufa.Wonke umntu enkundleni ukwavumela abantu ukuba babone isimilo somntu kunye nesiseko sakhe ngemidlalo.

Uthando lunawe kwaye luvuna ulonwabo

Igalufa ngumdlalo phantsi kwelanga.Inojingi oloyikekayo, ukuhambahamba ngokukhululekileyo, kunye nokushukuma kunye nokuzola.Luhlobo lokuzilolonga kumntu omnye, kodwa luhlobo lothando lwabantu ababini.Ukudlala igalufa neqabane lakho yindlela esempilweni nephilileyo yothando.“Bamba isandla sakho uguge nonyana wakho”.Yinto yothando nethambileyo ukuhamba nibambene ngezandla kwindawo eluhlaza enelanga kwaye nihambe iminyaka.

Intsapho eyonwabileyo isoloko ifana.Ngenxa yomdlalo wokuzilibazisa oqhelekileyo, unokufumana unxibelelwano olunempilo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ujongane nobunzima kunye nemingeni enkundleni, uxoxe ngeenzuzo kunye neelahleko zangaphakathi, kwaye ngokungazi unciphise umgama phakathi komnye nomnye.

Wudle ilifa umoyaukusukaabazaliukuyaabantwana

Igalufa ngumdlalo wamanene onembeko, ingqibelelo, ukuziphatha kakuhle, nokuziphatha kakuhle.Kuye kwaba ngumdlalo wokuzikhulisa emehlweni abantu abaninzi.Luthomalalisa umoya womntu, luphucule inzondelelo yomntu, yaye lukhuthaza ukukhula kolutsha.Yinkalo entle kakhulu yokuziqhelanisa nesimilo.Abantwana abazilolonge kwibala legalufa bahlala benophawu lomdlalo ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi kwaye banomdla kubo.Luncedo lokukhula okanye ukukhula kwabo kwixesha elizayo..

Iintsapho ezinabantwana abadlala igalufa ziya kuphulukana nesabelo sokulwa kwabazali nabantwana kunye nokuqonda kokomoya.Ixesha elichithwe kwibala legalufa nabantwana liya kuba yinkumbulo entle nethambileyo yomzali nomntwana njengoko bekhula.

Yazi abantu kumdlalo, dibana nomntu onengqondo efanayo

Ukuba ufuna ukumazi umntu, unokumthatha ayokudlala umjikelo wegalufa.Ungayibona isimilo sakhe ngomjikelo wegalufa.Uyakwazi ukubona ubuntu bangaphakathi bomntu kwaye uthanda igalufa.Nangona baninzi ubuntu, kuba iimpawu zalo mdlalo zinento efanayo.Ukususela kumncinci ukuya kumdala, ubomi abuyi kuswela amaqabane ebhola ngenxa yobudala.

Abanye abantu bathi ukuhlala nomntu okhululekileyo kunokugcina impilo, ukuba kunye nomntu onomdla kunokondla abanye, kwaye ukuba kunye nomntu othembekileyo kunokomeleza intliziyo yakho, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungumntu onjani, unokuhlala unaye. / Wadlala umjikelo wegalufa kunye.