Ndiyenera kunena kuti nthawi zina zomwe mphunzitsi amakuuzani m'chiganizo chimodzi ndi zomwe simungathe kuzimvetsa mutakonzekera kwa mwezi umodzi kapena kuposerapo.

Tiyenera kuphunzira kutengera zochitika zomwe ena afotokoza mwachidule kuti tipite patsogolo mwachangu.

Nawa maupangiri 5 ochitira gofu.Zikumbukireni ndipo mudzazigwiritsa ntchito moyo wanu wonse.

1. Kaimidwe kaimidwe ndiye maziko
Miyezo yosiyanasiyana mwachibadwa idzabweretsa kusintha kosiyana.Ngati kaimidwe ka munthu kamakhala kosiyanako pang’ono nthawi iliyonse akamatembenuka, kugwedezeka kwake sikudzakhala kofanana.
Kuti mukwaniritse kusinthasintha kobwerezabwereza, pangani kugwedezeka kulikonse komwe mungathe ndikuwombera mokhazikika, muyenera kupanga

tsimikizani kupanga kaimidwe komweko.

Kuyang'ana kaimidwe kanu kuyenera kukhala chinthu chomwe muyenera kuchita musanagwedezeke, osati kuyamba kugwedezeka mopupuluma.

2. Kutembenuka ndi chinthu chofunikira
Pakugwedezeka, mayendedwe onse ayenera kuchitidwa pansi pa malo ozungulira, chifukwa ndiye pakatikati pa kugwedezeka.
Lamulirani kugwedezeka mwa kutembenuza thupi, osati kungotulutsa mphamvu yamphamvu yakugwedezeka, komanso kumapangitsa kuti kugwedezekako kukhale kokhazikika.

3. Njira ndi yofunika kwambiri kuposa mtunda
Ngati njirayo ndi yosakhazikika, ndiye kuti mtunda ndi tsoka lalikulu.Sizowopsa kukhala wopanda mtunda wogunda, choyipa ndichakuti palibe njira.
Pochita, chitsogozocho chiyenera kukhala choyamba, ndipo mtunda umachokera pamalingaliro okhazikika.
 
4. Yesetsani kuchita zinthu mwanzeru, osati kukongola
Kwa osewera gofu, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kugwedezeka kokongola kuyenera kukhala kothandiza.Ndipotu si zoona.Kukongola sikofunikira kwenikweni, ndipo zowoneka bwino sizokongola kwenikweni.

Tiyenera kutenga kugwedezeka kothandiza ngati cholinga choyamba, m'malo motsata dala kugwedezeka kokongola.Inde, ndi bwino ngati mungathe kuchita zonse ziwiri.

5. Maluso a mpira amakambidwa
Palibe amene angapange njira yabwino yogwedezeka poyika mitu yawo pochita, ndipo luso limasinthidwa pang'onopang'ono pakukambirana kosalekeza.
Osakana kuyankhulana ndi osewera gofu ndi makochi.Malingaliro ambiri osambira amatha kumveka momwe mukutsutsa.